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Mastering the Wedding Toast: toast do's and don'ts



With the excitement of the wedding day and the anticipation of hitting the dance floor, guests are eager to keep the momentum going. Keep your toast between 2-4 minutes to ensure it's engaging and impactful.


Introduce yourself and briefly touch on how you know the couple. Share a sweet anecdote or memory that highlights your connection but remember to keep the focus on the couple.


Even if you're closer to one person, acknowledge both members of the couple in your toast. Share stories that celebrate their relationship and what makes them a perfect match.


The best toasts strike a balance between humor and heartfelt sentiment. Share funny anecdotes that will have guests laughing, but also include touching moments that tug at the heartstrings.


If you're struggling to find the right words, consider including a beautiful quote or scripture that resonates with the couple. Avoid generic advice and opt for something personal and meaningful.


Conclude your toast with a joyful and hopeful message, inviting guests to raise their glasses in celebration of the couple's love and future together.

Weddings are beautiful celebrations filled with love, laughter, and heartfelt moments, and one of the highlights of the reception is undoubtedly the toasts. Whether you're the best friend, sibling, or coworker, delivering a memorable toast can be a daunting task. But fear not! We've compiled a list of do's and don'ts to help you nail your wedding toast and leave a lasting impression on the newlyweds and guests alike.



While it may be tempting to calm your nerves with a few drinks, it's important to maintain composure during your toast. Avoid causing unnecessary stress by delivering your speech while intoxicated.


Refrain from beginning your toast by expressing nervousness or dislike for public speaking. Find your inner confidence and focus on delivering a heartfelt message.


While spontaneity can be charming, it's best to have a plan for your toast. Outline key points or jot down notes to ensure a smooth delivery.



Keep the focus on the couple's love story and avoid mentioning past significant others or relationships.



Remember, this is a wedding, not a roast. Avoid sharing stories or making comments that may embarrass the couple, especially in front of family and friends.



Avoid assuming or referencing the couple's plans for children unless they have explicitly shared them. Respect their privacy and focus on celebrating their love.



While it may be tempting to calm your nerves with a few drinks, it's important to maintain composure during your toast. Avoid causing unnecessary stress by delivering your speech while intoxicated.


Refrain from beginning your toast by expressing nervousness or dislike for public speaking. Find your inner confidence and focus on delivering a heartfelt message.


While spontaneity can be charming, it's best to have a plan for your toast. Outline key points or jot down notes to ensure a smooth delivery.


Keep the focus on the couple's love story and avoid mentioning past significant others or relationships.


Remember, this is a wedding, not a roast. Avoid sharing stories or making comments that may embarrass the couple, especially in front of family and friends.


Avoid assuming or referencing the couple's plans for children unless they have explicitly shared them. Respect their privacy and focus on celebrating their love.

With these tips in mind, you're ready to deliver a heartfelt and memorable wedding toast that will be cherished by the newlyweds and guests for years to come. Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after!



With the excitement of the wedding day and the anticipation of hitting the dance floor, guests are eager to keep the momentum going. Keep your toast between 2-4 minutes to ensure it's engaging and impactful.


Introduce yourself and briefly touch on how you know the couple. Share a sweet anecdote or memory that highlights your connection but remember to keep the focus on the couple.



Even if you're closer to one person, acknowledge both members of the couple in your toast. Share stories that celebrate their relationship and what makes them a perfect match.


The best toasts strike a balance between humor and heartfelt sentiment. Share funny anecdotes that will have guests laughing, but also include touching moments that tug at the heartstrings.



If you're struggling to find the right words, consider including a beautiful quote or scripture that resonates with the couple. Avoid generic advice and opt for something personal and meaningful.


Conclude your toast with a joyful and hopeful message, inviting guests to raise their glasses in celebration of the couple's love and future together.

Do's

keep it concise

establish your relationship

speak to both members of the couple

balance humor and emotion

incorporate meaningful quotes

end on a high note

Do's

don'ts

Don'ts

Don't Drink too much

Don't start with negativity

Don't wing it

avoid references of past relationships

steer clear of embarrassing stories

respect their family planning choices